What Makes You Happy?

My photo of my son makes me smile

My photo of my son makes me smile

I don’t know about you, but it does me good to think happy thoughts. Wasnt that what made the children able to fly in the story of Peter Pan? Whilst only a story, it had some sense in the concept.  I am too quick to think sad and depressing thoughts and realise that I need to train my mind to think happy ones. How sad is that? Oh dear- there I go again!

So instread of thinking: “what a dark, depressing day”, I will think, “what a lovely day to spread some much-needed happiness and kindness”. Or instead of thinking how much I am struggling today, I will think of someone else to share some cheer. Instead of seeing bad first, I will look for the good and instead of spending lots of time watching or listening to unhappy people, I will look for happy ones (Funshine Bears Happy Activities).

I don’t think that this is living in the clouds either- or if it is, it certainly beats living in the mud!

What you focus on will grow” is a saying I have heard. Now is the time to look each day for the things that I want to grow and focus on them.  I want to see my relationships grow for instance, so it will be good to look at them positively and I wouldn’t be surprised if much of the negative things that I saw before disappears.

Children do this more naturally.  There’s nothing to cheer you up like the smile of a baby. The challenge is to keep it alive in them and not kill it.  Let’s celebrate this life-giving emotion and water it each day.  Do you remember the Care Bears? Let them share Funshine Bears Happy Activities with children. Check out this resource for teaching the happy emotion to children:  Funshine Bears Happy Activities

What makes you happy?

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This entry was posted by Chrissiejo on Friday, April 26th, 2013 at 1:22 pm and is filed under Family Values, Learning, parenting . You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed. Both comments and pings are currently closed.

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